Curve balls

Life throws curve balls at you. Just when you think you understand you don't. Just when you think things are fine they aren't. Just as you think your problems are the worst and most challenging in the world you learn that your issues are nothing.

When things happen to your kids your perspective changes. It changes in a lot of ways. What are your proirities what is it about you that makes you special. When you're gone how many people miss you? The answer to the last question is very few. Family And loved ones are really it. The truth is we are what we allow to happen to us. What we allow others to do to us and how much we can take. 

The truth is life is hard. It's always been hard and it always will be. Relationships don't have to be and shouldn't be. We make them difficult we allow ourselves to make bad decisions to begin with then we allow ourselves to grow apart. 

My goals are simple to look for things that make me happy and stick with them.